I like to think I gracefully walk the tight rope between helping my students and helping my students. What I mean by that, is that my job is to help: to identify and create solutions, to support and encourage, to provide guidance and explanations. My job is not to help: let students enroll if they haven’t gotten their transcripts in, glaze over the attendance policy because you needed to work extra hours, tell students when their final exams meet, etc. Sometimes students ask for things, and my nature of servant leadership flies in and wants to do it for them. Sometimes students ask for things, and my impatient type-A nature flies in and knows I could do it faster and better than the student and wants me to do it for them. In each of these scenarios, though, it is my job as an academic advisor to evaluate the situation and judge – what would create the best opportunity for the student to grow, to take responsibility, to learn, or to maybe even make a necessary mistake?
Advisors, do you experience the same thing? How do you decide how & how much to help your students?
Students, how do you expect advisors to help you? Are you surprised by what your advisor will or won’t do to help you?